Episode 8

The REAL Reason You’re So Angry & Resentful: Why It’s Not About Them & What To Do About It

Published on: 28th October, 2025

You’re not crazy. You’re not mean.

You’re resentful — and there’s a reason.

FREE PDF: The 3-Layer Resentment Reset™

00:00 — Understanding Resentment: A Personal Journey

04:13 — The Layers of Resentment: Anger, Envy, and Self-Abandonment

07:37 — Anger: Why it's Not Bad and How to See it as an Alarm

10:01 —  Envy and What's Missing in your Life

14:09 — Self-Abandonment: The Core to Resentment

30:18 — The Path to Honesty and Real Change

35:04 — Turning Resentment into Empowerment

In this episode, Aly gets real about the emotions most women are taught to hide: anger, resentment, and envy. She breaks down how these feelings are less about the people around you… and more about the moments where you’ve abandoned yourself trying to hold everything together.

You’ll learn how to read what your resentment is really saying, reconnect with your self-awareness, and start taking your power back one small, doable shift at a time. If you’ve been running on empty, snapping more than you want to, or wondering why your self-care never seems to stick—this one’s for you.

If you’ve ever felt constantly irritated, emotionally drained, or stuck in burnout, this episode will help you move from frustration to freedom—with practical tools that actually fit your real life.



What You’ll Walk Away With

  • Resentment usually means you stopped showing up for you, not that someone else broke you.
  • Anger is a messenger, not a mistake. It shows where something needs to shift.
  • Envy points to what’s missing—your next clue toward alignment.
  • Ignoring your needs is a form of self-abandonment.
  • You have more control than you think—especially when life feels chaotic.



FREE PDF: The 3-Layer Resentment Reset™




This isn’t fluffy self-care talk. It’s emotional health, mental health, and female empowerment in real life.



Topics covered: burnout, irritability women’s rage, stress, snapping, guilt, motherhood, marriage, working women, nervous system, honesty, emotional well-being, mental load, anger, resentment, shame, self-care, work-life balance, patience, parenting, mental health, calm, authenticity and setting healthy boundaries to protect your peace.

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About the Podcast

Her Burnout Uncovered | Stress Relief + Time, Energy & Balance Tips for Busy Overwhelmed Women
The world keeps telling women to do more, give more, push harder — and even when it breaks us, they call it “productive.”

Her Burnout Uncovered exposes the truth about the hidden burnout silently draining busy working women and working moms everywhere. It’s the exhaustion you can’t sleep away, the anxiety that won’t turn off, and the self-care routines that never seem to work.

This podcast is for overwhelmed women ready to stop running on fumes and finally reclaim their energy, balance, calm, and confidence.

Each week, Aly Anderson — burnout and stress expert & master coach — brings a mix of science and soul:
• Neuroscience + nervous-system regulation to reduce stress and anxiety
• Human Design to rebuild balance and create routines that fit how you’re wired
• Practical self-care, time-management, and boundary tools for real relief

No toxic positivity. No “hustle-harder” advice.

You’ll get grounded, research-backed strategies for sleep, stress relief, motivation, and energy recovery so you can feel like yourself again — calm, capable, and in control.

These insights apply to every area of life — parenting, marriage, career, friendships, health, and habits.

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